My boyfriend is a marine, and wants to annul a marriage

The Question:

Would he get sent to jail for this? He’s only a Lance Corporal and tells me that he could get into big trouble if he annuls or divorces and wants to separate from his wife… but he wants to to marry me instead. We live in California and he goes to Camp Pendleton. Can Someone help me please? They got married last Thursday, less than a week ago, and from what I researched, nothing happens between the marines and him because annulment is a civil matter. I don’t know what to believe.

My Response:

Dear Pendleton;

NO he will not get in trouble. I have known many marines and many who went to Camp Pendleton who married, divorced, separated etc. he just got married on Thursday with this girl and already wants an annulment, I am not understanding how he is already your boyfriend, yet just got married on Thursday and already wants an annulment and wants to marry you. Something about this story just isn’t right…. You need to open your eyes and get out of this relationship ASAP! His rank has nothing to do with anything, I would make sure what his true reasons for not wanting to divorce her is. The only way he can get in trouble is if they find out he cheated on his wife, I do not know if he was still with her when you got together (I don’t see how he wasn’t considering they were just married less than a week ago) or if you got together after they were separated. I know it’s hard to hear but it’s possible that they are still together and he is lying to you. (This is me saying it in a nice way), Let him take care of his issues and if you are meant to be, he’ll come back, if not you deserve someone who isn’t already taken. Find the truth now before you waste more of your time. Bluntly — Leave the looser and find a real man, someone who doesn’t go around cheating and marrying women and divorcing them in less than a week. Good luck!

xo,
kristin nicole

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