If your significant other didn’t get you a birthday card, would you be upset?
If they wished you a happy birthday but no card, would you be upset? He didn’t get me a b-day present because he has paid for some big things recently and I am okay with that, but I at least thought I would get a card. Tell me if I am being childish.
Dear No Card;
You have every right to be a little upset. Don’t worry, most guys don’t think a card is a big deal and they just don’t think about getting one. My boyfriend rarely gets me a card for my birthday or anniversary and I have told him before that I love getting cards, because it is the only time he actually writes down the little things he sometimes doesn’t say all the time. Remember though, just because he didn’t get you a card doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. But I understand 100% what you are feeling, and I totally get that since he bought a few things before your birthday that a card ON YOUR BIRTHDAY, would have just been nice or even some roses would have been romantic. MEN sometimes just don’t think about those things, so try not to get too upset. But it’s totally okay to be a little upset
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