The Question:
Last night, having sex, I was more enthusiastic than usual and my husband said to me “I like it when you’re liking it, not when you’re in a mard” (slang for being a bit moody), yet he says I’m ALWAYS in a mard? Which made me think – does this mean he doesn’t enjoy sex when I’m being ”mardy”? Therefore he rarely enjoys sex? And if that’s the case, why has he never cheated? Or is it that he always enjoys sex, and he just meant that he likes it that I’m enjoying myself? And doesn’t like it that I’m mardy sometimes? Advice please…
My Response:
Dear Mard;
These are all questions you need to be asking your husband. Communication is always the key to a healthy relationship and maybe this is a turning point to having a better sex life with your husband. Just because he said you are a “mard” and you are “always in a mard”, doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t enjoy sex with you. I think he was just surprised perhaps of how much you were enjoying sex last night and he was happy about that. Most men really get turned on when they see their wife/girlfriend is enjoying the sex. It boosts their ego in a way, letting them know they are getting and doing the job right! If he hasn’t cheated on you, I would take this as a good sign that he truly loves you. I’m sure he doesn’t like when you are a mard sometimes but I am sure he knew you were like this when he met you and married you, I would just ask him how he feels, and this way you won’t have any of these questions lingering in your mind. If you know you are moody a lot try to figure out why you always feel this way, and change your ways. Life is too short to always be “mardy”. You enjoyed your sex session with your husband last night right? Try to remember and focus on that moment the next time you have sex and realize you are feeling moody, that might change your mood and remind you that there isn’t any reason to feel moody and to enjoy your intimacy with your husband. Enjoy life…Enjoy sex…
xo
kristin nicole
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