Any tips on how to ensure your wife is not “too tired” when we go to bed?
I try to help out but I need to try other ways of ensuring that come bed time we don’t just go to sleep! I think it is true to say I am very keen in bed and perhaps that gets a bit much every night.
Dear Bed Time;
Do not wait until you go to bed. If you get home from work and you have kids to take care of, I can understand it may be a little harder to just jump your wife for some fun in bed right after work, if you do not have kids, I say do just that. If you do have kids, then make sure the kids are in bed at a good hour so that you can have mommy and daddy time together and do not wait until you watched some of your TV shows to try and set the mood, go for the win as soon as you get into bed. If you do have kids, I can understand that they take a lot of energy from you so she may not be in the mood every night even if you try to set the mood as soon as she gets into bed, but try to spice things up and be romantic. I can not really tell you what to do because I do not know your wife or your situation but just try to spice things up in the bedroom and do not wait until 11pm at night when you know that is when she usually goes to sleep. Good luck!
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