She was caught cheating on me with a married man whom she knew when they were both teenagers. I warned her to stop all contacts with him after she begged for forgiveness and wanted another chance, but recently I found out she email him some of her latest pictures. When I questioned her, she said it was nothing but just a matter of showing him what she did and who her friends are during one of her trainings, and that the other guy was still concerned about her and that they remain as platonic friends and contact each other via Skype occasionally. I know I have no way to control her but what should I do?
Dear No Control;
Let me get this straight, your wife cheated on you with another married man, and you took her back? I don’t care if they knew each other in diapers, cheating is wrong on all levels and you should have never taken her back. The trust is obviously gone, and cheating is one of the worst betrayals anyone can take. She betrayed not only your trust, but your marriage and your respect. The fact that she is still staying in touch with this guy shows her no regard for your feelings. You have to make a decision and it is not one someone can answer or someone can do for you. You need to decide if you want to stay in a marriage where the person cheated on you, a marriage where there are lies and no trust or if you want to finally stand up have RESPECT for yourself and get out. You deserve someone who won’t cheat on you and someone who will love you for you.
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Tony Carrera says
“I don’t care if they knew each other in diapers”
Haha – classic!