The Question:
I am just waiting for the right guy. A handsome, tall, carefree responsible man with no kids. A loyal, good christian man with no bad habits. Is that too much to ask?
I don’t want to be a slut and just have sex with anybody. I want it to be special…Is it weird to be 36 and a virgin?
My Response:
Dear 36 Year Old Virgin;
I think that at your age it is going to be hard to find a man that has no kids. You don’t need to be a slut to have fun and be open. At your age you may not want to be so picky on that “perfect guy”. No guy is perfect and until you can realize that the imperfect might be perfect for you, you might never find the right guy. You need to be more open minded, you might have to find a guy that may have kids already or has slept around, because to find a man that is also a virgin might be a bit hard in today’s world. There is nothing wrong with wanting a loyal, good Christian man, it just might not be exactly what you have been waiting for. To some it is nice to see that you have waited for the right person to give your self to, to others it is definitely weird that you are 36 and still a Virgin. That is just how our society see’s things, especially in today’s’ world. Life is short and you shouldn’t hold back waiting for that right person to come along, because you never know if Tomorrow will ever come.
Good luck.
xo,
kristin nicole
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Dear 36 year old virgin and Kristin,
Two things:
1. IMHO you do not have to settle and lower your standards. There are good men out there without a host of children and ex wives. I know at least 4 that are near and dear to me. They are all responsible, moral, hardworking members of the community. They waited to become involved and are ready now and looking for the right match.
2. I think more and more women and men wait until they are settled before starting a family and like you, this shows proactive thoughtful care. You, your future spouse and possible children can only benefit by your consideration and planning.