The Question:
What do you think? Or am I overreacting?
So there is guy in my girlfriends class that obviously has a thing for her cause he always stare or like glances at her. One day i pick her up from class and he didn’t know who i was and was walking toward her and when he saw me he immediately walked the opposite direction ( on to the issue ). So this guy got partnered up with my girlfriend, and we both have a feeling he has a thing for her and me and her have discussed and agreed on it. So they obviously have to meet and do they’re project, and tells be that shes going to invite him into her dorm to do homework, when there’s a study area right below her and next to her dorms. So i get angry about it cause she for one knows he likes her and all, and wonder why of all the places invite him to your DORM!. But yeah i get annoyed cause sometimes shes makes a big deal about him looking and even looked up his myspace to “see if hes a douche or that type of person who would try and hit on someones girlfriend “. I thought this was odd, and the fact that she thought to invite him to her dorm to study irked me a lot. Wouldn’t you feel the same way?
My Response:
Dear Overreacting;
You need to talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you feel, if she respects how you feel there is no reason why she can’t meet up with this guy at the study center. I agree with you here, there is no reason to meet up to study in her dorm room when there is a study center in the same building. I think your girlfriend is playing with fire, and although she may act like she doesn’t like the fact that this guy likes her, then why even bother looking up his myspace, facebook or any account for that matter. On that note; you have to trust your girlfriend and even though this guy might have the hots for your girlfriend you have to trust that nothing will happen. I don’t like putting temptation in places they don’t need to be, so ask your girlfriend to meet him in the study center and not in her dorm room if this will make you feel better. Communication is key, and if she is mature she will understand and have no problem with meeting him in the study center instead.
Good Luck
xo,
kristin nicole
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But yeah I do greatly appreciate the response btw. We’ve been going out for a while, and go to school 4 hours apart. Just the fact that she suggested inviting him to her dorm when theres a study room next door or on the bottom floor is a bit irritating ( she said its because she didnt want to carry her laptop and it was more of a convience for her, bull) & the whole looking at his page and pics to see if he was a “douche” was the breaking point. I just found it to be inconsiderate to my values and concern, and a bit skeptical on her part! Thanks and love your site!
-James
Dear James,
I am so glad I could help. Come back and check out other stories and comment in the future.
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xo,
kristin nicole