Advice Column: Does my personal trainer like me?

 

The Question:

If he likes me, he would call me. Right?

He gave me a personal training session preview and I was pretty much flirting with him the whole time, but it might not have been obvious. I don’t know if all personal trainers do this but he asked to touch my butt for one exercise and I said no because I did not want to seem like a slut but he was touching my back a lot and I’m not sure if personal trainers do this. I didn’t have any money so couldn’t hire him. He probably does not like me but I wrote down my email and number on the form. I think he can call it if he wanted to ask me out. It would probably be dumb to ask him, but I don’t want to come off as slutty or desperate.

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My Response:

Dear Working Out;

Personal trainers at times may hold your back or ask to support you depending on the exercise. This does not mean that the trainer was flirting with you. Some personal trainers will flirt with their clients in order to try and have them come back, that can be normal for any man. If he wasn’t flirting with you back, I am not sure what the question is. Why would he call you if you didn’t get that vibe from him? If you left your information, for him it was merely business. I am sure a lot of girls flirt with him as he’s training them. If you like him, that is up to you whether you want to talk to him and let him know how you feel, but don’t feel bad if he turns you down.

xo,

kristin nicole

I found this question on Yahoo.com