Should I leave my Girlfriend?

The Question:

Should I leave my girlfriend, I love her more than anything in this s**t hole called earth,but I am a lost cause…I wish her the best and with me she cant have it. The one thing i am good at is bringing suffering to others around me. I know she could do better than me, she is a very good person, too good for a bastard like me. I don’t know what I will do without her but it is not about me, it is about her having a better life,so should I leave her?

My Response:

Dear Better;

Lets start off with why you believe earth is a big s**t hole, why do you feel that you bring only suffering to others and why do you feel that you aren’t good enough for your girlfriend? Sounds to me like you need to talk to someone, you sound depressed and this isn’t healthy. Life comes with it’s up and downs, and I don’t know what happened to you for you to think this way, but if you have a girlfriend, I’m thinking somewhere down the line you did something right. Something that made this girl like you enough to date you. I do not think you should break up with your girlfriend because you are having pity for yourself. Get up and do something about it, talk to someone, start feeling better about yourself and life. Life can be a s**t hole, I won’t lie, but Life can also be wonderful, happy, astonishing. Look around you, look at your girlfriend that you love so much, do you want a better life for her? Then make one for her, with you in it. It is possible, no one person is jinxed to bring suffering to everyone around them. Think positive and have faith in yourself, confidence that you are the right one for your girlfriend. If you still feel like wallowing up in your own sorrow, then break up with your girlfriend and go figure out what it is you need to do to make yourself feel better, but stop feeling sorry for yourself and get out there. Find what it is you want and life and make it happen. I hope you find the help you need, the happiness we all deserve and the love that is right in front of you.

xo,
kristin nicole

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