Should a wife be able to loan out the husbands truck while he is gone to work?

The Question:

Should a wife be able to loan out the husbands truck while he is gone to work? Truck has been owned by husband for decades long before wife came along, wife is not even on the title or registration! Husband comes home from work and truck is not in garage! Husband flips!

Then file’s for divorce! Because if he cant trust her with his things while he is away how can he trust her when she is with someone else! That’s what he told her!

My Response:

Dear Talk About Over-Reacting;

So the wife loaned out her husbands car which he doesn’t loan out to anyone and he came home to find his truck missing? I understand him getting upset and angry, and that is understandable but DIVORCE is a big way to go. I am assuming this someone else was a MAN? If this is the case, I still do not think it is in need of a divorce, although I can understand there being a trust issue, personally, I would never lend my boyfriends car to anyone, especially without asking. There needs to be some kind of communication here, and if she is cheating on him, this is a totally different question/story. I think something else is going on here, I really don’t think getting or wanting a divorce is because she lend out his truck to someone?!? When you are married, I understand that certain things are still yours and yours alone, but this is just ridiculous! Talk things out, try to find out why she would just lend the car out, and who this person was, if you really feel you can’t trust her, then perhaps a divorce is the way to go, but if you just overreact with out trying to make things work then perhaps there is something more going on besides lending out your car?
Good luck

xo
kristin nicole

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