Sometimes when you see two people argue I wonder how it can be that two humans can be so different, how two people can think so differently on their own opinions. I’ve been in a couple relationships and I know that not one was easy. There were happy times, there were angry times, there were tears and sadness but mostly the times that I felt sadness were so over whelming, so hurtful that it makes you feel like giving up. WHAT IS LOVE?!? A four letter word some people use lightly, a four letter word some people think they know what it is but really don’t, because then they only love you “a little”, or a four letter word that truly just means nothing to someone because you have one fight, ONE FIGHT, that yes it was frustrating, and yes it made you angry, but isn’t that what couples do? FIGHT? So we had one fight and now he just wants to throw it all away, throw it the door the like nothing ever happened?
Let me tell you my story….
My name is Sophia Gomez, I was born in Spain and moved to Miami when I was 3 years old, so this is my home and it’s all I’ve ever truly known. I’m 29 years old and I’m an Interior Designer, I graduated when I was 22 years old and I’ve been doing this ever since. So enough about my background, let me tell you about my boyfriend. He’s 6’3, light blue eyes, brown hair , 32 years old and he’s British, enough said right? He caught my eye one night at a friends house, she had a house party, and he came with a friend because he was new in town. His name is Benjamin Smith, of course I call him Ben. He’s an attorney, he has his own firm and is one of the biggest partners there, but enough about what he does, back to us meeting. So after a couple of scotch on the rocks I had the courage to go up to him, I pushed my breast out, walked on over and said, Ben, I think you are the most attractive man I’ve seen in a long time, want to go back to my place?!?
Okay, okay, so I didn’t do that, I was shy to go up to him, I always believed that the man should come up to you, so I waited in hopes he noticed me as everyone mingled. As the night went on, I barely got a glance, what was up with this guy, was he married, taken, what? I was wearing my best dress that made my breast curve oh so perfectly, and heals that made my legs go on for days. Okay so I was no Jennifer Aniston, but I thought I looked pretty damn good. As the night dwindled down, the party got smaller, and I thought this is my chance, this is my chance for him to notice to me. The group ended up being me my best friend (who was throwing the party) Greta, Allan her boyfriend, our friend Sandy who was hitting it off with Kevin and Ben. This was perfect, everyone was paired off, and now I can go for the kill. Okay okay, I sat on the couch with my scotch and asked if anyone wanted to play a game. Everyone was a little buzzed so they all excitedly wanted to know what game we were going to play. Lets play Never have I ever! Okay Sophia what are you doing, this game will let him know everything you’ve ever done before he even gets to know you; BUT has the words came out and I realized maybe this wasn’t such a good idea everyone was excited, even Ben. Ben had never played so he wanted to know more details on how you play this game. So I laid out the rules. Rule number one, a person says Never have I ever… and they say something they have never done before, everyone else needs to take a shot of their glass if they HAVE done it before, and when we run out of things we’ve never done, you can start saying things you have done. Rule number two, there are no other rules, have fun and start drinking! Who starts Greta asked, everyone was looking at me and now I felt pressured to start, okay okay I’ll start. Never have I ever had sex in a movie theater. (Okay so I fooled around, but that’s not sex, and Ben sure doesn’t need to know that on our first meeting each other). So up went one drink, poor Sandy, she admitted it and Kevin, well he seemed excited about it. Then out of the corner of my eye I see Ben take a shot, Oh no Ben did I need to know that you had sex with another women in a movie theater? Maybe I should take a shot just to block that memory out of my mind. Ben stood up, I’ll go next (with that sexy British accent), I wanted to melt right there in his arms and just start kissing him, I wondered how he kissed, I wondered how big his….focus Sophia…. Never have I ever had a piercing that is not on my ears. There goes my shot, and every other person in the room. Ben smiled and looked at me, I guess he’s wondering where else I might have piercing other than my ears. Well Ben this will be something you’ll have to find out later. Okay dirty minds, it’s not anywhere real special it’s just my belly ring. The night went on with Never have I ever till about 5 in the morning. We laughed and cried with how much we laughed and Kevin and Sandy disappeared around 4 a.m. Ben didn’t have a ride home, so of course I honorably offered to take him home. We ended up grabbing something to eat and stayed up talking until 8 in the morning. We talked about everything, interests, why he moved here, what I did, relationship statuses….BING BING BING (We both were single). He was very respectful that night, he gave me a kiss on the lips and went inside his apartment without asking me in. Yea that’s all sweet and nice, but I wanted to see more of that body, I wanted to feel him inside of me, but I guess it was nice that he just didn’t want to get me into bed the first night we met. I drove home, took a shower, a plopped into bed, daydreaming about being with Ben…
To be continued…
If you like the way the story is going and want to hear more, I would love to hear feedback, if you want something thrown in there I can see if I can make that happen too
xo,
kristin nicole
written by: Kristin Nicole – 04.02.10 – Friday – 7:53 am
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