My Ex is seriously driving me insane. She always comes and go’s when she wants even when we were together. I always did everything for her, bought her so many nice things got her medicine and took care of her when she was sick. I always put her first and she never gave me any appreciation in return. In the start of our relationship she would always tell me how much she loved me and it made me feel so good.
I gave up everything for this girl my friends, my job, my life just to try and make this stupid girl happy but it was never enough, she always wanted something more from me and what I gave her wasn’t enough. Now she won’t even return my phone calls I want to forget her but I can’t…
I want to move on but I want what I cant have and shes playing that card on me, how do I overcome this huge obstacle especially when she ruined my life.
We all have choices in life, you chose to leave your work and friends for this girl, she did not make you do those things, so you can not blame her for “ruining your life”. You did that all on your own, and you are still stuck in that cycle right now. She obviously does not love you, to allow you to do the things you did. A women who truly loves their men would help them in their career, would hang out with their friends friends and they would not be so selfish as to want everything for themselves. You are infatuated with this women and right now you want what you can’t have. Sit down for a moment and really evaluate your relationship and read what you just wrote. Is this the kind of women you really want in your life? You obviously know she is no good for you and she treats you badly so why would you want someone like that in your life? You need to finally just get up and move on. Get your life back on track, go apologize to your friends, get your career back on track and then go out there and meet a women that is actually worth your time. You do not need to drop your life to be with someone you love, if they love you they will join your life and become part of your life.
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