The-Question:
I caught my husband having affairs on the net – After being married for thirty years I don’t know what to do? I cant seem to trust him anymore. I cant seem to forget and keep blaming myself for not keeping an eye on him.
My Response:
Dear 30 Years;
You have every right to not trust him anymore, you were married for 30 years and he betrayed your trust in the most horrible way a man can betray a woman’s trust. Do NOT blame yourself. We can not be on top of our men all the time, and we shouldn’t have to. You should be able to trust the person you are with and that person should be faithful to you no matter what temptations are out there. If your husband couldn’t be faithful this is not your fault. No matter how hard it may be you deserve respect and love from someone and you deserve to not get cheated on. It may be hard to leave your husband but he left you the day he decided to cheat on you and destroy your marriage. Stay strong, it isn’t going to be an easy journey for you but I promise there is someone out there for everyone. My aunt was married for over 20 years and later found her soul-mate. It’s never too late! Good luck!
xo
kristin nicole
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Did he just chat with women online or did he actually physically meet with them? May or may not make a difference.
Yes Tony is right, if it was just chatting vs actually physically meeting with them it may make a difference. However, I do not agree with him having to chat with other women either, it is still a form of emotional cheating. It is starting something that can lead to worse things.
xo
kristin nicole