The Question:
What do you do when you are really horny and desperate for intimate communication?
My Response:
Dear Horn Ball;
Well it depends on your girlfriend/wife. If you want to be intimate with your wife communication is always key. Do not ever feel afraid to say what you feel, even if you think it will sound funny or embarrassing. If you cannot be honest with the one person you are being the most vulnerable with, the most intimate with then who can you be honest with? Spice things up in the bedroom, maybe have someone take care of the kids (if you have kids) and go away for the weekend or even just one night. Rent a hotel room, set the room up to be romantic, have a few drinks to loosen up and go for it! Tell her what you want, when, how and where, if she is too shy to do so, ask her what she wants you to do first, and go from there. Make her feel comfortable, and start talking! Every woman has a fantasy, try to find out what hers is first, then perhaps she will repay you by building up your fantasy. If you are horny on the spot just grab her and kiss her passionately, that should get her in the mood. Desperate?? Horny??? The only thing you can do is talk to your wife, or just stop talking and go for it! If talking is what you want in the bed, then while you are “doing” it then talk (say what you want her to hear), and ask her to tell you stuff in return, if she’s too shy, try being the aggressor maybe Telling her instead of asking her will turn her on more. If that doesn’t work find out what does. Talking and feeling that passion between each other is a sure key in helping spice things up in the bedroom. Don’t be shy!!!
Good luck!
xo
kristin nicole
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