He yelled at me I’m driving him nuts!?!? I don’t know what’s up with him. He says I can’t do nothing by myself, how I’m always bored, how we have to do everything together, how I should find someone else to go out with and so on! The truth is I have more friends than him, I’m more outgoing, I’m more independent than him, everything he accused me for is a pure lie! The next minute he nagged how I don’t shower him with attention enough in public! Just after he told me I’m clingy. When I said OK, we won’t see each other every day, I’m fine with it. He said he wants to see me and he is always first to invite himself to come to me and so on. What is this about?!?!
Dear Mixed Signals;
It’s time to sit down with your boyfriend and have a heart to heart. Maybe he’s confused as to where this relationship is going, but he is definitely sending mixed signals. One minute he’s asking you to give him space and almost acting like a jerk so that you would break up with him, and the next he wants to spend more time with you and be with you. Sit down with him, and ask him openly what is going on? If you want to stay in this relationship tell him you love him and are committed but you can’t keep going back and forth with him sending you mixed signals. Sometimes men don’t know how to communicate there feelings and so they act out in other ways, men sometimes also try to fight with us for no reason when they are trying to get out of a relationship but don’t know how. Talk to him, without communication you won’t get passed this.
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