Advice: Is this considered cheating?

I am in a relationship, my boyfriend and I have only been together for a month, but we had been seeing each other for a few months before we got together. I really do care about him. I have this guy friend though who is bisexual and really crazy and funny, and we are really close, I love to spend time with him, but when me and my boyfriend got together, he told me he didn’t like me hanging out with my best friend and that he doesn’t trust him. So I have been hanging out with my friend and keeping it from him, I go out to clubs with him and go over to his apartment sometimes. We don’t do anything though, we are just best friends, even though we have made out lots of times in the past before I got with my boyfriend. Is spending time with him behind my boyfriend’s back considered cheating?

Dear Hiding behind your BF’s back,

It’s definitely not cheating, but it isn’t right to go behind your boyfriends back. That being said, it also isn’t right for your boyfriend to tell you who to be friends and who not to be friends with. If you were friends with this guy before you were with your boyfriend then he needs to accept it and be okay with it. Trust is very important in any relationship. Be honest with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. If he really cares for you he will trust and understand where you are coming from. Have you tried to hang out with your boyfriend and best friend together? Maybe if he sees your best friend isn’t a bad guy he will be okay with you hanging out with him. Good luck.

xo
kristin nicole

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