Advice Column: Will I ever fall in love? Image found on flickr.com
The Question:
Will I ever fall in love?
I just got out of a relationship a few months ago (I’m 15) and it was my first relationship, I’m not the prettiest girl in my year group or ‘everyone first choice’ and he was the first guy to really like me. I feel like I’m never going to fall in love again because of what happened during the break up because I’d guard myself too much and also because no one would really like me in that way, how do I become someone who’s actually someone’s choice & be known?
My Response:
Dear Teen;
Of course you will fall in love again, you may fall in love 2, 3 more times. You are still young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t ever think you aren’t worth finding love for. Everyone is pretty in different ways. A person you may think is prettier than you in your eyes may not be so pretty in a guys eyes. Beauty on the outside isn’t everything either. I know it’s easier said than done, but don’t build that wall where you don’t let others in. Part of life and love is getting hurt. It’s what makes us stronger and wiser. One day you will see that everything happens for a reason and and this first boyfriend of yours will be nothing but a small memory in the back of your head. Be confident and don’t put yourself down so much. Everyone is different but confidence is key.
xo
kristin nicole
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