This is an older post (2010)
The Question:
I am just out of a very painful break up as of a couple of months ago and I am finding myself looking at porn more and more and it is just coming out from the pain I’m in and it makes me feel terrible. Anybody been in similar situations?
My Response:
Dear Addicted;
Your a young, healthy young guy, don’t feel bad about watching porn. If you feel you are addicted to it and having to watch it more then a couple times a day, then there might be a problem; find professional help (there is such a thing as porn addicts). If you just enjoy it every once in a while to be with yourself, then enjoy it and don’t feel so bad about it. It’s natural for men to like porn and get turned on by it, there is nothing wrong with this. If you feel you are just watching it to avoid getting out there again then stop; there is nothing like a real women vs. just watching porn. Stop feeling down, and get back out there, date a few women and stop feeling bad that your relationship didn’t work out. Relationships sometimes don’t work out and the only thing we can do is get back out there.
xo
kristin nicole
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I completely agree with the answer given. It’s nothing wrong if you enjoy watching porn. But you must get over that relationship that didn’t work out. And be with REAL women. I’m sure there are a lot of women available out there. And they are going to make you forget about your previous girlfriend. Just try! And remember…you’re not a freak because you watch porn, there’s nothing wrong with that!