Advice Column: Sex problems with my husband
My husband and I used to have a great sex life before we had children. We have been married 3 years now and together 6. I am 24 and he is 27. We have sex about once a month now.
Yesterday I was laying in bed with nothing but a bra on, covered in oil, and he came to cuddle me [sic] after he got in from work. So kids are in bed and everything is quite. I started to kiss him and put the moves on and he said “oh I’ve got to get something to eat” So I was like fine.
I found him looking at porn (on the history on the computer) this morning while I was asleep last night. I don’t get this, he had the chance to have sex with me yet he watches porn.
I am not fat or ugly or anything, I get looks from other men all the time. I just don’t get it. I wear makeup and sexy clothes all the time! I’m only 24, I go to zumba and have a great body, no one would know that I have had two kids.What do I do?
Dear Once a Month;
Communication is key, you need to talk to your husband and see what is going on with him. How old are your children? Maybe he just feels weird having sex while the children are in the house, this is not to say this is an excuse but you won’t know what he is feeling until you talk to him. If you were in bed all oiled up I can’t see how he wouldn’t jump on you right then and there. Something is definitely up, and you won’t get answers staying quiet. Speak up and tell him how you feel.
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