Was it my fault it ended?
On a summer holiday, I seen [sic] a girl from the hotel who found me on a social media site, despite not talking to each other. We’re both college students (I’m a year older). We have spoken to each other almost every day for 5 months via text message & skype. She’s smart, nice, cute, and she feels special to me.
We were very close for those 5 months. Everything was brilliant. Talking almost every day, skyped each other, she used to laugh smile and say I was special to her. It was so nice. I asked to meet up but she wanted to wait until Summer so I waited patiently, as she wanted more time. I helped her feel better when she was down about her mock exam results and spoke to her on holiday so she didn’t miss me. We discussed meeting up soon, she lives 3 hours away. I brought it up again a few weeks later which I regret, seemed needy.
She has said I trust her and she trusts me but I asked to call her, she was busy. A week later without talking, she texts: “I’ll have to be blunt saying this but I want to end it. It was nice to know you. I struggle with distance, couldn’t cope going further… hope to continue still being friends!” – She hasn’t spoken to me for a month.
She seemed a little emotionally immature at times but she betrayed me and I felt incredibly hurt and sad. She did it out of nowhere and doesn’t appreciate what I did for her. I feel like a back up & I’ve already been going through a very tough situation in my personal life. Was it my fault?(Revised)
Dear No Fault,
It was definitely not your fault. You actually tried to see her and she kept putting it off. I can’t give excuses as to why she did what she did but it definitely wasn’t cool. I would tell her how I feel, be ‘blunt’ right back at her. If this is how she treats her “friends” then I would say move on. Try not to take it personal as you don’t know her reasons behind why she did what she did. Move on and find a girl that’s in your own home town. Long distance relationships of any kind are hard to deal with anyway.
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